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From: Another second wife
Date: 05 Jul 2010
Time: 20:31:20 -0600
Remote Name: 99.132.249.152
Salaam I want to say first I am glad that I have found this site. I have been reading and posting at another and have found useful information for my situation. I am reading through this site and did recommend it to another sister that had questions about relationships with co-wives although she is a first. In this site there are many comments regarding emotions that is stated as how the first wife feels..and really I too experience the same feelings. My situation may be a little different as they were separated and still do not live together...all his personal belongings are at our house...they have been this way for two years...but are working on it. I take care of all his daily responsibilites and tasks so my role is more like the first and maybe that lends to feeling some of what other firsts feel. There was one remark that caught my eye that seconds gain a husband. We do but we also deal with part time...we also deal with trying to establish a home, family and life together in the midst of an already established relationship family etc...and that is a lot of another wife to contend with bc at times you do feel like you are behind the eight ball. But I will continue reading and for this poster second wife I appreciated and enjoyed your comments as well. Salaam, second wife