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From: muxsidah
Date: 02 Apr 2010
Time: 10:58:26 -0700
Remote Name: 198.54.202.195
sister shukran for your book also intended to write my own experiences as a first wife i feel so much better to read that someone went thru the same proceses as mine remember we all just human men are naturally polygamous in nature so that is his test from Allah and woman are naturally emotional beings but those who control the emotion will gain that big reward sometimes i feel like a failiure cos shaytaan slip in that gap to ride my mind for a split second but sister we must remember being a first wife is like being the queen of the palace and if the other sisters and community detect ure humbleness they will undertsand and view clearly Allah wisdom behind this situation sister dont despair this life is short on earth when we want to giv into shaytaan to be angry say a oethoe biellaah hie mienas shaytaan nierrajeem and think of jannah there u will get anything ure heart desire that is Allah promise my sister lets move away from that westernised thinking that i must share my husband no thats not a good thinking be happy Allah gave another sister the opportunity to have a husband and to have kids in a halaal way so lets want things for the sister what we want for ourselves so if u see ure husband giv affection to the sister dont forget he give the same affection to u if he is really a sweet and just husband u will just also get that fuzzy feeling as if u in her place that moment make doaa for your husband and thank Allah for choosing him to carry this responsibility and help him to do things to gain Allah love and jannah