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From: iman........
Date: 31 Mar 2005
Time: 04:25:55 -0700
Remote Name: 65.162.184.5
salams broth......its sad to hear that but i tell u somthng most of man who get married 2nd have similar prob. anyway now the point is how to solve this. always the 2nd wife feels more special cose u marry her over another woman bcoz of this she gets spoilt a bit from u without u realiseng it. more she starts to get wat she wants. and in the same time the 1st one is more quite bcoz of she is not secure anymore, her feelings are hurt & the best thing for her is to see her child with her father & u must give this to her. this is whrere it comes JUSTICE & FARE wat Allah asks man for. if u love or like your 1st wife do not leave her cose its her right to have u in all aspects olso she did ecsept u having a 2nd wife. now the 2nd wife & her family u must make it clear to them that u keep ur first family as they need u. then if 2nd wife wants to leave u for this she is going to mess her self up bcose she has no reason to divorce u. good luck.