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From: Sharing
Date: 23 Feb 2005
Time: 00:21:00 -0700
Remote Name: 198.81.26.75
As Salaam Alaikum Sis and Bro,I am a second wife. My co-wife whom started out and still is a friend and sister of mind, was blessed with this idea of us being co-wives.This dual marriage was months in the making before I said yes. During this time my co-wife/sister and I talked alot over the phone about co-existing, because I was new to the religion she had to do alot of educating about the religion and about dual marriages.I love my sister,I trusted my sister. She made me beleave that she could handle this, and this was all for the plaesure Allah (swa). Had she not convinced me of this I wouldn't have gotten married (Allahu Alim).Now that I am married to the Brother,her husband,our husband she isnt feeling the marriage,she wants a divorce. I don't want her to divorce the Brother. I'm sad at the fact that she is hurting. I often think of divorcing the Brother for her sake because my Sister/friend is hurting. However I have fallen in love with the him, my children love this Brother,and there are times I don't know what to do accept to have faith in Allah (swa). I often pray that Allah(swa) would give her peace amd comfort in this. I also feel that Insha Allah we could make this work. All I can say at this point is that I love them both,and to ask that you make duaa for us.