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From: Another First Wife
Date: 14 Jan 2005
Time: 22:40:19 -0700
Remote Name: 62.231.220.136
As-salaamu aleikum Brother, As a woman, my advice to you is to be honest with both women because if your wife catches you lying to her it will cause her to lose trust and confidence in you. Be kind and loving to each, especially if they are hurt or angry. Be very patient, especially if either is hurt or angry. You should expect that your wife will feel hurt when she learns she is to have a co-wife, and having patience with her can help her overcome that in time. Aim to have two good marriages. Every woman wants to feel loved and needed and special. You can make them feel this way. Women in poly marriages need lots of reassurance that they are loved and wanted. It is worth it for your own happiness and the happiness of your children to make your wives feel this way.