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From: ummsara
Date: 30 Nov 2004
Time: 08:29:52 -0700
Remote Name: 217.249.232.238
ok insh i take some of the critic u give to me, ur right there, and insh i wont be sad or offended by u saying "unislamic" to me. thats what really hurts coz its the essential. we may fail everywhere but if it comes to deen its the worst. may Allah forgive me. maybe i shouldnt have taken part in the discussion, i get too emotional. alh. i havent called anyone unislamic, only the FACT of the marriage itself, thats a point to consider and depending on ones aqeedah?! another sister said "not allowed in the us", meaning the same??? Allahu alam. one thought which i hope noone feels bothered with is why was the book written if we r not to mingle in with other peoples privacy. the sister here HAS revealed a lot and invited us to discuss, and wasnt that a mistake too? where does it lead us to? its right, not our business, its hers, but then she should keep it to herself, and not call it jihad. who sais its jihad?? do other women now feel inferior coz they dont experience the same?? or who r even never married, a thing they might suffer from extremely??? forgive me if i did wrong insh i wont write here anymore. sw wr wb