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From: umshuhad
Date: 26 Nov 2004
Time: 14:23:31 -0700
Remote Name: 195.93.34.10
As Salaamu Alaikum, whether or not this is a discussion board is besides the fact, correct manners must always be implemented, right? For example it is not a muslim man/womans place in this deen to ask or question others as to their 'personal' business. Like how u asked a question of how she can do her job in the bedroom. That question was disgusting my sister. And that is what I mean by unislamic, even though I never said that word, u did. And if I was the sister I would probably avoid answering your questions too as the ones u asked are surely none of your concern? She as far as I can see was just expressing what her feelings were and everyone is different. I could see that couldn't u? The moral of it was that this dunya is SHORT too much so. To b worrying about YOUR MAN or who ever's man. Because in reality they are not ours they r Allah's as r our children. Our purpose in life is to worship Allah in ALL that he has commanded. Marriage in itself is a test, WE choose do we not whether or not we fail that test. This is the wisdom behind it. The marriage IS 1/2 of our deen. Can we see now why that is so? And the wider picture has to be looked at. And please forgive me sister in Islam if I offended u previoiusly. I just wanted to give sincere advice and to awaken u to what u were saying. Not that your opinion is wrong you are the who would have to deal with your situation, or whoever? But we shouldn't critise each other for making HALAAL choices in life can we? Wa salaamu Alaikum