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From: ummsara
Date: 21 Sep 2004
Time: 07:26:53 -0600
Remote Name: 217.249.241.92
dear sister , assalaamualeiki wr wb, pls write to me, would u mind. be sure ill guard ur privacy and anonymity. id like to stay anonymous but cant if i give u my email.but theres many things we must discuss, and i can put u in touch with someone who went thru this and d tell u many things. may i mention something: wow mashaAllah good book etc, but why didnt u opt opting out??? i mean as u said u might have done a lot of harm to ur children, and ur body and soul. after all divorce is allowed so why didnt u. why do u think u get a higher place in jannah. u get there inshaAllah for being a good muslim and bringing up ur children which u cant if ur constantly depressed...!!! so theres always 2 options alhamdulillah. and u had a reason for divorce. so , why do some women choose self sacrifice... not the sense of islam??!! dont feel offended but i get kind of mad at women who over do it??!!! do u think ur the better muslim coz u stayed? if u feel overburdened theres the choice for divorce and its halal. Allah doesnt overburden us does he and thats what divorce is for. dont u feel disgusted by a man who marries for sex, isnt that disgusting. rnt there many men looking for wives and he takes one away. for low desires, isnt that disgusting. how can u still do ur job in his bed. this is a physological death!! sorry for my blunt words but they had to come out, i mean it. wait for ur urgent reply sis sw wr wb